This became a really social month – much more so than our old norm.
With the neighbours from each side, sampled one of the Thai restaurants in town. Bendigo is so well endowed with interesting and great places to eat. It was such a hot month. The restaurant was quite crowded and the A/C was barely coping. Maneuvering neighbour’s wheelchair to our table was a challenge – it is a rather crammed place. But the food was great, for those that like Thai. Not all of our neighbours do, it turned out.
The older Bendigo grandson departed for Europe, with a touring hockey playing group. They would play matches in France, Spain and England, returning in time for the new school year.
Mid-month we hosted a family get together. Son and family from Melbourne. Extended Bendigo family. Friend M, who came up early to help me prepare the food, assisted by daughter and partner’s mother and aunt. Plenty of lovely food: afternoon nibbles included John’s order of party pies! Cold meats, seafood, salads. Usual fruit salad and trifle for dessert, with the addition of a cheesecake turned into a birthday cake for me – present from daughter-in-law.

Part of the party spread

My birthday “cake”
It was a great afternoon and night, though too hot – the Perspex panels inset in the patio roof allow too much sun in at certain times of the day!

Three generations
The guests returned for brunch on Sunday morning: juices, leftover fruit salad, avocado and fetta on sourdough toast, bacon, French toast, waffles with maple syrup and icecream, plenty of brewed coffee. With a cake, we made an early birthday celebration for grand daughter, who would turn 18 next month.

Grand daughter’s birthday cake
Guests, except for M, had all departed by mid-afternoon. What a great weekend it had been. M stayed an extra few days, then departed back home, for her round of festive season celebrations – the annual party for the unit complex where she lives., then came back here for Xmas itself.
Daughter and family had Xmas Day with her partner’s extended family, as happens every two years, so it was just the three of us for my Xmas lunch of roast turkey thigh and vegies, with Xmas pudding dessert. But we enjoyed it together. Then went to the neighbours’ for late afternoon drinks.
One of my step daughters came to stay a night after Xmas. That was a fraught visit, as she was attempting to deal with much nastiness and acrimony from the break up of what had been an abusive marriage. Clearly, the divorce was going to be a really difficult time for her, especially with children being used as weapons against her. Times like that, one feels quite powerless.
Son, wife and his children drove from Melbourne to Narooma on Xmas Day, to visit with her mother there. M went home on 30th. We hoped she was seriously considering the benefits of moving up here!

Friend M at the family party
Our New Year’s Eve was quiet – and sad. I was becoming quite worried about son and family, in Narooma, with bushfires spreading in that area.












































